Complete guide for cycle tracking and partner support
After receiving an instagram reel from my wife about the subject, I started putting this in practice, and I have to say, it’s being great to be aware, I feel better equiped to support her!
NOTE
This was built with the help of Claude. Giving LLMs good use! \o/
📋 Cycle Tasks
These are the recurrent tasks that I set up to track the current phase… I usually send her a message about the current phase and we end up having some laughs!
- [ ] 🩸 Start of [[Woman Cycle#-menstrual-phase-days-1-5|🩸 Menstrual Phase (Days 1-5)]] 🔁 every 28 days 📅 2024-01-01
- [ ] 🌱 Start of [[Woman Cycle#-follicular-phase-days-6-10|🌱 Follicular Phase (Days 6-10)]] 🔁 every 28 days 📅 2024-01-06
- [ ] ⭐ Start of [[Woman Cycle#-ovulation-phase-days-10-16|⭐ Ovulation Phase (Days 10-16)]] 🔁 every 28 days 📅 2024-01-10
- [ ] 🌙 Start of [[Woman Cycle#-luteal-phase-days-17-28|🌙 Luteal Phase (Days 17-28)]] 🔁 every 28 days 📅 2024-01-17
🩸 Menstrual Phase (Days 1-5)
What’s Happening
- First day of bleeding marks Day 1
- Lower energy levels
- May experience cramps
- Body temperature at its lowest
Woman’s Needs
- Extra rest
- Warm comfort (heating pad, warm baths)
- Iron-rich foods
- Hydration
- Gentle movement
Partner Support
- Ensure heating pad is available
- Stock up on:
- Menstrual products
- Pain relievers
- Dark chocolate
- Iron-rich foods
- Take on more household tasks
- Provide quiet, calming environment
- Offer physical comfort (back rubs)
- Prepare warm drinks
🌱 Follicular Phase (Days 6-10)
What’s Happening
- Rising energy levels
- Increased optimism
- Enhanced creativity
- Skin begins to clear
- Cervical mucus increases
Woman’s Needs
- Support for new projects
- Physical activity
- Social interaction
- Protein-rich foods
- Creative outlets
Partner Support
- Plan active dates
- Join exercise activities
- Engage with new ideas
- Support creative projects
- Plan social gatherings
- Match increased energy levels
⭐ Ovulation Phase (Days 10-16)
What’s Happening
- Peak energy levels
- Highest fertility
- Enhanced communication
- Clear, egg-white cervical mucus
- Slight temperature rise
- Possible mild cramping
Woman’s Needs
- Channel high energy
- Stay hydrated
- Fertility tracking (if relevant)
- Antioxidant-rich foods
- Social connection
Partner Support
- Plan special dates
- Support fertility goals if relevant
- Match social energy
- Be available for quality time
- Support career initiatives
- Plan active outings
- Be attentive to increased libido
🌙 Luteal Phase (Days 17-28)
Early Luteal (Days 17-23)
What’s Happening
- High energy continues
- Good coordination
- Peak endurance
Support Needed
- Maintain routines
- Regular exercise
- Balanced meals
Late Luteal (Days 24-28)
What’s Happening
- PMS symptoms may begin
- Energy decreases
- Possible bloating
- Mood changes
Support Needed
- Extra rest
- Comfort measures
- Emotional support
- Reduced caffeine
- Magnesium-rich foods
Partner Support
- Be patient with mood changes
- Help maintain healthy routines
- Create peaceful environment
- Take on extra household duties
- Provide space when needed
- Help with stress management
- Stock comfort items
- Prepare for next cycle