Complete guide for cycle tracking and partner support

After receiving an instagram reel from my wife about the subject, I started putting this in practice, and I have to say, it’s being great to be aware, I feel better equiped to support her!

NOTE

This was built with the help of Claude. Giving LLMs good use! \o/

📋 Cycle Tasks

These are the recurrent tasks that I set up to track the current phase… I usually send her a message about the current phase and we end up having some laughs!

- [ ] 🩸 Start of [[Woman Cycle#-menstrual-phase-days-1-5|🩸 Menstrual Phase (Days 1-5)]] 🔁 every 28 days 📅 2024-01-01
- [ ] 🌱 Start of [[Woman Cycle#-follicular-phase-days-6-10|🌱 Follicular Phase (Days 6-10)]] 🔁 every 28 days 📅 2024-01-06
- [ ] ⭐ Start of [[Woman Cycle#-ovulation-phase-days-10-16|⭐ Ovulation Phase (Days 10-16)]] 🔁 every 28 days 📅 2024-01-10
- [ ] 🌙 Start of [[Woman Cycle#-luteal-phase-days-17-28|🌙 Luteal Phase (Days 17-28)]] 🔁 every 28 days 📅 2024-01-17

🩸 Menstrual Phase (Days 1-5)

menstrual

What’s Happening

  • First day of bleeding marks Day 1
  • Lower energy levels
  • May experience cramps
  • Body temperature at its lowest

Woman’s Needs

  • Extra rest
  • Warm comfort (heating pad, warm baths)
  • Iron-rich foods
  • Hydration
  • Gentle movement

Partner Support

  • Ensure heating pad is available
  • Stock up on:
    • Menstrual products
    • Pain relievers
    • Dark chocolate
    • Iron-rich foods
  • Take on more household tasks
  • Provide quiet, calming environment
  • Offer physical comfort (back rubs)
  • Prepare warm drinks

🌱 Follicular Phase (Days 6-10)

follicular

What’s Happening

  • Rising energy levels
  • Increased optimism
  • Enhanced creativity
  • Skin begins to clear
  • Cervical mucus increases

Woman’s Needs

  • Support for new projects
  • Physical activity
  • Social interaction
  • Protein-rich foods
  • Creative outlets

Partner Support

  • Plan active dates
  • Join exercise activities
  • Engage with new ideas
  • Support creative projects
  • Plan social gatherings
  • Match increased energy levels

⭐ Ovulation Phase (Days 10-16)

ovulation

What’s Happening

  • Peak energy levels
  • Highest fertility
  • Enhanced communication
  • Clear, egg-white cervical mucus
  • Slight temperature rise
  • Possible mild cramping

Woman’s Needs

  • Channel high energy
  • Stay hydrated
  • Fertility tracking (if relevant)
  • Antioxidant-rich foods
  • Social connection

Partner Support

  • Plan special dates
  • Support fertility goals if relevant
  • Match social energy
  • Be available for quality time
  • Support career initiatives
  • Plan active outings
  • Be attentive to increased libido

🌙 Luteal Phase (Days 17-28)

luteal

Early Luteal (Days 17-23)

What’s Happening

  • High energy continues
  • Good coordination
  • Peak endurance

Support Needed

  • Maintain routines
  • Regular exercise
  • Balanced meals

Late Luteal (Days 24-28)

What’s Happening

  • PMS symptoms may begin
  • Energy decreases
  • Possible bloating
  • Mood changes

Support Needed

  • Extra rest
  • Comfort measures
  • Emotional support
  • Reduced caffeine
  • Magnesium-rich foods

Partner Support

  • Be patient with mood changes
  • Help maintain healthy routines
  • Create peaceful environment
  • Take on extra household duties
  • Provide space when needed
  • Help with stress management
  • Stock comfort items
  • Prepare for next cycle